Start Young and Stay With It
At just a few months of age, an infant can look at pictures,
listen to your voice, and point to objects on cardboard pages. Guide
your child by pointing to the pictures, and say the names of the various
objects. By drawing attention to pictures and associating words with
both pictures and real-world objects, your child will learn the
importance of language.
Children learn to love the sound of language before they even
notice the existence of printed words on a page. Reading books aloud to
children stimulates their imagination and expands their understanding of
the world. It helps them develop language and listening skills and
prepares them to understand the written word. When the rhythm and melody
of language become a part of a child's life, learning to read will be
as natural as learning to walk and talk.
Even after children learn to read by themselves, it's still
important for you to read aloud together. By reading stories that are on
their interest level, but beyond their reading level, you can stretch
young readers' understanding and motivate them to improve their skills.
It's Part of Life
Although the life of a parent is often hectic, you should try
to read with your child at least once a day at a regularly scheduled
time. But don't be discouraged if you skip a day or don't always keep to
your schedule. Just read to your child as often as you possibly can.
If you have more than one child, try to spend some time
reading alone with each child, especially if they're more than 2 years
apart. However, it's also fine to read to children at different stages
and ages at the same time. Most children enjoy listening to many types
of stories. When stories are complex, children can still get the idea
and can be encouraged to ask questions. When stories are easy or
familiar, youngsters enjoy these "old friends" and may even help in the
reading.
Taking the time to read with your children on a regular basis sends an important message: Reading is worthwhile.
One More Time
You may go through a period when your child favors one book
and wants it read night after night. It is not unusual for children to
favor a particular story, and this can be boring for parents. Keep in
mind, however, that a favorite story may speak to your child's interests
or emotional needs. Be patient. Continue to expose your children to a
wealth of books and eventually they will be ready for more stories.
Talking About Stories
It's often a good idea to talk about a story you're reading,
but you needn't feel compelled to talk about every story. Good stories
will encourage a love for reading, with or without conversation. And
sometimes children need time to think about stories they've read. A day
or so later, don't be surprised if your child mentions something from a
story you've read together.
Remember When You Were Very Young
It will help to consider some things adult readers tend to
take for granted. It's easier to be patient with children when we
remember how much they don't know. Here are a few concepts we adults
know so well that we forget sometimes we ever had to learn them:
- There's a difference between words and pictures. Point to the print as you read aloud.
- Words on a page have meaning, and that is what we learn to read.
- Words go across the page from left to right. Follow with your finger as you read.
- Words on a page are made up of letters and are separated by a space.
- Each letter has at least two forms: one for capital letters and and one for small letters.
Imagine how you would feel if you were trying to interpret a
book full of such symbols. That's how young readers feel. But, a little
patience (maybe by turning it into a puzzle you can solve together) is
certain to build confidence.
Advertise the Joy of Reading!
Our goal is to motivate children to read so they will
practice reading independently and become fluent readers. That happens
when children enjoy reading. We parents can do for reading what fast
food chains do for hamburgers...ADVERTISE! And we advertise by reading
great stories and poems to children.
We can help our children find the tools they need to succeed
in life. Having access to information through the printed word is an
absolute necessity. Knowledge is power, and books are full of it. But
reading is more than just a practical tool. Through books we can enrich
our minds; we can also relax and enjoy some precious leisure moments.
With your help, as your children begin a lifelong
relationship with the printed word, they can grow into adults who read
easily and frequently whether for business, knowledge, or pleasure.